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The Biblical Meaning of Marriage and Who to Marry
Marriage - the union of a man and a woman as husband and wife, which becomes foundation for a home and family.
The Origin of Marriage
Marriage was the first institution ordained by God. And the LORD God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet (appropriate) for him" (Genesis 2:18). And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man (Genesis 2:23).
Marriage Legislation
God's desire for His people was that they marry within the body of believers. The Mosaic Law clearly stated that an Israelite was never to marry a foreigner. (Exodus 34:10-17; Deuteronomy 7:3-4). The apostle Paul told the church at Corinth, "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). Marriages between Israelites were directed by law, and all incestuous relationships were outlawed (Lev. 18:6-8; 20:19-21).
Choosing the Bride
In Old Testament times, it was customary that the parents chose the mate for their son. The parents chose someone who would best fit into their clan and work harmoniously. It is wise to become acquainted with your perspective spouse and in-laws.
Choose a Believer
In Genesis 24:3-4 Abraham's servant was instructed to choose a compatible spouse. In Judges 16: 4-21 Sampson loved Delilah. In Ezra 9; Nehemiah 13:23-27; and Malachi 2:11-12 we can find Israel marrying idolatrous people. In 1 Kings 11:1-10, Solomon married strange wives.
The bible does not teach Christians to marry unbelievers in hope of saving them. It says if a person is married before knowing Christ they do not have to divorce their unbelieving spouse. (1 Cor. 7:12-16; 1 Peter 3:1-2)
Trust God (Abraham trusted God and told his servant to do likewise) Gen. 24:6-7
Ask God (The servant prayed) Gen. 24:12
Consider their Character (The wife-to- be; her character was important) Gen. 24:12-14
Use Wisdom (He used wisdom in finding a wife) Gen. 24:3; 21
Concept of Love
The question is should one marry who they "love" or "love" whom they marry? Although love is important we should not allow love to blind us of "other important issues". Love, lust, and circumstances blinded Israel to what they knew was right and wrong. Marriage is a covenant; it is the joining together of two different people (i.e. a man and woman) with "different value judgment". Marriage is a biological act, legal contract, and an economic arrangement. Know what you are getting into; look before you leap. It is wise to first become casual friends, next close friends, and finally intimate friends (engagement). When Isaac married Rebekah, the Bible records that "she became his wife, and he loved her" (Gen.24:67).
False Teachers and Prophets; pt 2
Titus 1:16
False teachers profess to be Christians.
Deuteronomy 13:1-2
False teachers can perform miracles.
Revelation 21:8
There is a place in Hell for false teachers.
Isaiah 30:9-10
People will want to hear false prophets and teachers.
2 Timothy 2:15
Those who carefully study the Bible should recognize the doctrine of false teachers and prophets.
Galatians 1:9
Teachers who fail to teach Jesus' death, burial, and resurrection, according to the scriptures are false teachers.
Romans 10:8-10
Believing in your heart and confession with your mouth according to the scriptures that Christ died, was buried, and was resurrected is the way to be saved.
Ephesians 2:8-9
The Grace of God through faith in Christ will get you into Heaven.
Acts 10:46- 47; 19:6
Speaking in tongues is the consequence of the Holy Ghost baptism. The Baptism of the Holy Ghost is subsequent to salvation.
Romans 6:1-2; 1 John 1:8-10
True born again Christians might sin but they do not practice sin.
Matthew 15:13-14
Doctrines that are man-made and not planted by the heavenly Father will be rooted up.
2 Timothy 4:2-3
Scripture encourages us to reprove and rebuke false teachers.
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Teaching on "The Biblical Meaning of Marriage"
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